How do I get an adhd diagnosis for my 12 year old daughter

[HappyCake1234]

She’s become more challenging during lockdown which adds to my first thoughts of adhd. How would I go about this and what happens? Is it like 1 or 2 meetings or is it phone calls etc. I am aware this is different for every area and child however, any input would be great as I’m trying to grasp an idea of what it would be like if I decided to get her tested.
Many thanks

[Rollergirl11]

We went for a private assessment for DS (11 at the time, now 12) back in February. It was with a Consultant Neurodevelopment Paediatrician. DH was assessed for ADHD and ASD and has been diagnosed with ADHD. The assessment cost us £600. If they suspected ASD then there were further assessments at a further cost. We were just about to speak to DS’s school
about next steps but didn’t happen before lockdown. We also had a home visit scheduled with a behavioural specialist but that had to be cancelled due to Covid.

The Doctor spoke to us about medication and said that it is singularly the most effective treatment for ADHD but obviously we were still digesting it all and it was too early to discuss. She said that If we decide to go down the medication route then she would prescribe initially and we would have to pay for it. Then hopefully within a few months of commencing we could transfer to the NHS for the medication prescription.

[Rollergirl11]

We are in Surrey.

[cantstopsinginglittlebabybum]

GP, school or go private.

[cantstopsinginglittlebabybum]

@Rollergirl11 nhs can prescribe even with private assessment as private prescriptions are regulated by the NHS.

[cantstopsinginglittlebabybum]

@HappyCake1234 we went private for my son. I made the appointment 2 weeks ahead so school could fill out paperwork, he was seen, assessed and diagnosed that day after the appointment and started meds 2 weeks after that.

First prescription was private, I quoted the guidelines to the GP and the nhs now prescribe. Camhs have never seen him. He is on the waitlist but it's been nearly a year and he's not had an appointment through.

[Rollergirl11]

@cantstopsinginglittlebabybum how are the meds working for you if you don’t mind me asking? Homeschooling with DS these past few months has really brought home to me how much he struggles with his concentration and his executive functioning.

[SodaSodaBanana]

In our area the pathway is closed until sept due to corona. We had to do the Vanderbilt and submit an assessment with the school. Dx took around 18 months, I’d been concerned for 3 years.

Have a look at 1-2-3 magic and www.additudemag.com/ for strategies. I would recommend watching some TED talks by young people with ADHD and some of the ADHD kids on Tik Tok and then rewatching them with your daughter. She might see some of herself in them, and see that if she does have ADHD is not a negative, she’ll just know more about how her brain functions than her friends.

[SodaSodaBanana]

@Rollergirl11 same. DS is in Primary, but I can’t see him managing GCSE exams at all unless I’m sat next to him

[drspouse]

You'd be surprised, now DS is on meds, he does his learning apps on his own, and he likes the patterns questions so I got him a non verbal reasoning practice book and after sitting with him to do 3 papers he did the fourth on his own.

(These are the 11+ kind - he's not doing it and it's from the year below - but it was a surprise to me that he could do it on his own and concentrate well enough to finish it, check his work occasionally etc.)

[cantstopsinginglittlebabybum]

@Rollergirl11 he's doing great, he's made friends, he remembers things, he has so much more opportunity now to do things as before starting meds, he just couldn't concentrate and focus at all.

[HappyCake1234]

There’s so many mixed opinions around it’s so hard to choose which path to take. I reckon I might analyse her behaviour further and go private but also try and get her put on the waiting list for camhs. I assume camhs will involve multiple consultations or meetings?

[cantstopsinginglittlebabybum]

From what I've heard yes it does. After diagnosis it can take up to 6 months to start medication and then they have a break from it during school holidays, doses are altered slowly. That's why I'm glad I had my son assessed privately so there wasn't any length of time between diagnosis and discussing/starting next steps.

If I were you, I would go to the GP but be prepared for them to say you need to go via the school.

Make an appointment for a private assessment. Research them thoroughly before you book, look at their Facebook pages, reviews online, check credentials and what testing measures they're using for the assessment.

Please pm me if you want more information or support.