Hi everyone. Can I have some straight forward advice please ? Situation is this . DSS has been left school for 3 years and has not had a job since - does not contribute financially to anything in the house. I pay the mortgage, all the bills including his internet . He takes my daughter(hisSS) to school 4 days a week and sometimes cooks evening meal . He has no other responsibilties in the house. Last night he had his mate round in his room until 11pm, my husband was away working until 1a.m and unknown to me DSS had his mate sleeping over . The mate has just left ... I was angry and asked DSS did his mate sleep over last night ? He said yes, and when I asked him why he did not ask my permission, or even tell me , his reply was " what about your friends, when they come over"? My friends rarely visit - maybe once a month during the day .. I am actually at home recovering from major abdominal surgery at the moment so normally working fulltime all week. He wouldnt even look at me when I was talking to him .. I was so angry . What I would like to know is what do other parents expect from their children/grown up children /step kids and anything to do with other kids/adults sleeping over ? Am I over reacting , or what ?
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