DS (15, Autism, ADHD) is doing ok in school here (not UK). He has a helper (shared between 2 kids) at a mainstream school and is passing his subjects and enjoying school. It’s fee-paying but the helper is government funded. His issues are mainly behavioural and he is challenged when he doesn’t understand something being said (slow processing speed and accents are an issue). He will ‘act up’ during the lesson rather than show that he doesn’t understand the work.
I have just split from my partner (his dad). I don’t love where we are but i am concerned that returning to the UK may mean that DS will not get the help he needs. He was diagnosed here (Europe). I can hopefully afford to send him to a fee paying school but I’m not sure this is the best or that he’ll be accepted given his age and SN. Can anyone give advice/thoughts on whether they would move to the UK (and maybe school suggestions?), or whether they would stay here. I don’t know how quickly we could get into ‘the system’ and have the right support. I have 2 other kids so cannot focus entirely on him.
any thoughts much appreciated.
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unexpectedalliances · 15/01/2024 07:29
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