Hi everyone!
I’m still on the early stages of the journey with my three year old. She is considered non-verbal and shows preference for signing.
My query is every dog and his man has to chime in with something when we are out in public. There is either an expectation for her to talk and when she doesn’t I get a ‘Not feeling it today?’ and shamefully on some occasions I have said ‘She’s just woken up’ to get out of the conversation topic and quickly. I don’t know how to broach it.
When I have said she’s non verbal before (such as when on a dog walk and she’s in her pushchair) someone asked her to name our dogs. I explained she couldn’t and I was met with awkwardness and she walked off. Then I feel awkward.
OR I’m met with ‘Oh speech will come, you need to try harder. No such thing as a bad student, only poor teaching’🥺
I get a host of responses and it makes me feel like a shitty parent tbh.
We are going through the process of whether she is Autistic or if there is something neurological going on causing her to have no speech (just for info- we aren’t sure right now)
Would you just say she is non verbal and walk on as I’m not ashamed of her disability, it’s how I’m met with opinions and judgment when I say.
Any support?
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How to broach non-verbal when out with public
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Popcornlassie28 · 22/03/2024 13:24
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Jigglypuff87 ·
23/03/2024 21:21
carriebradshawwithlessshoes · 23/03/2024 21:07
@Jigglypuff87 that’s great that he took to the iPad! When was that, how did you get him started? DS totally not interested…
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