DH and I have suspected that DS has autism since he was around 4. He's now 9 and I am even more certain about it. The main characteristics are his obsession with a single interest at a time, and that he gets upset/angry daily over small (to me) issues. For example, he was very upset recently when his friend accidentally took his water bottle home, to the point where we had to go back to his house and pick it up. Another couple of issues which could be related are that he has occasional, small, toileting accidents, and that he has struggled a bit with gross motor skills compared to his peers.
My main concerns are that his mental health may suffer because he may be unable to cope with daily issues/frustrations that he may come across. And also his social interactions. His is friendly with his classmates and plays football at breaktime (which fits with his current obsession which is Manchester United), and he gets invited to the occasional birthday party. However, he doesn't seem to form deeper friendships than this, probably because he mostly talks about Man Utd.
I'm looking to find some resources or support eg books, websites, support groups etc where I could learn about how to support him. I've had a look at the National Autistic Society website but haven't found anything useful really.
I am considering asking the GP for a referral for diagnosis, but I suspect that we won't be taken seriously - DS behaves well at school and is academically very strong.
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Yesterdayyesterday · 26/03/2024 22:41
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