My DD is 14. She has diagnosed ASD, ADHD, SPD and mental health problems.
Life was up and down but ok in primary school. Secondary has been a disaster. We’ve been trying to get an EHCP for the last 22 months but LA constantly kicking can down the road.
We found a brilliant specialist independent, which covers all her needs. The LA have said no and named an LA special school instead.
The LA school is nice and has positive aspects, but it doesn’t meet her needs. Initially I thought, I’m going to fight this, go to tribunal, ‘bring it on’, but I’m so tired and worn down from constantly fighting for things. I’m not sure I can go on for potentially another year like this.
DD has been out of school for 6 months.
How did you know it was time to admit defeat and stop fighting for what you think is right?
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
SN children
Time to give up?
Starlightstargazer · 23/03/2024 20:24
Headfirstintothewild · 23/03/2024 21:30
Personally, I would appeal. Is the independent wholly independent or a s41 independent? In the meantime, if DD can’t attend school, is alternative provision being provided?
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Headfirstintothewild · 24/03/2024 10:11
6hrs a week isn’t a suitable full time education. Send the LA one of the IPSEA model letters. The LA may try to stop provision but if DD can’t attend you should challenge this.Â
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Headfirstintothewild · 24/03/2024 14:39
Looking at the appeal, if money is tight focus on independent assessments over a solicitor. If you can’t afford independent assessments, Parents in Need can sometimes help.
Even 9 hours is not considered a suitable, full-time education. Take what the LA and tuition company (which obviously has a relationship with the LA) say with a pinch of SALT.
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