Hi all 👋Â
I have a DD who is almost 16 months old, she has the most beautiful sleep routine after a momentary disruption after 1year vaccinations, we’re back on track 😌. We’re so proud of her!
But I am now facing another issue.. I am a mummy with insomnia. I’ve had it for a very long time but it’s more of an issue now than ever. I am so determined to have a synchronised routine with my baby girl but the only way I am managing to do that is by having little to no sleep.Â
Her father is constantly offering to do the morning routine with her alone so I can have more sleep but then I just feel like I’ve missed a massive part of the day with her.Â
I want to be an active mum - play groups, soft play, park trips, nature walks. But they’re all day time activities and if I’m sleeping then I will miss out on all of that. I also love breakfast time with her.Â
BUT I am also close to burn out (my eyes are starting look like I’ve been in a boxing ring, which is not great for my confidence either ðŸ˜).Â
Im waiting for a call from my doctor, In the meantime I’ve spoken to a pharmacist who was in agreement that sleeping pills aren’t the best idea with a baby incase the baby wakes up through the night or there’s an emergency and I’m completely zonked out from them. Also there’s risk of becoming dependent on them. He suggested more natural remedies.Â
Just a quick mention that I am suspected to have adhd but I am a long long way away from getting any answers, this is a whole other conversation. But I mention this as it’s common for adha’ers to struggle with sleep - Without diagnosis, no medication.
does anyone have any recommendations of something that actually works please?!Â
I’ve tried different sleep teas and nytol(before I had my baby) which didn’t work with me. I’m so so desperate to have a functional sleep routine that doesn’t strip me away from day light! I know people would probably say I’m making it more difficult for myself but I refuse to sleep through the day and miss out on my mornings with my DD, I’d rather not sleep!Â
thank you in advanceÂ
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JayEll · 14/03/2024 16:06
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