Hi - sorry this turned out a bit long!
My 5 month old DD has never been an amazing sleeper (very alert, catnapper), but after a lot of work I got into a pretty good rhythm for naps of being able to get her ready, rock/hold her for less than a minute with a dummy in and bit of eye stroking and put her into her cot.
Over the last few weeks however settling her has become so much harder (alongside being more restless and generally having disturbed sleep during what I assume is/was the 4 month sleep regression) - and one of the biggest hindrances is her hands! As soon as I start rocking her, her hand shoots up to grab my face, and if I put her down both of her hands start flailing and she really needs to hold onto my hands or my face (even if she was previously asleep on me). She doesn't reach calmly, she "kneads" and swings my hand around, before very slowly calming down. But if I try to remove my hand, even when she seems really asleep, she starts grabbing away again. If I leave her to try and settle herself she starts grabbing at the dummy instead and pulls it out.
I can see that she's trying to sleep, and it's fine if I do a contact nap (I guess because her hands never have to lose contact with me) but it's becoming increasingly difficult to put her down. This is also becoming a huge problem at night after a feed - she'll be basically asleep on me but sometimes once I put her back in the cot have to hold her hands down for half an hour and if I stop too soon I have to start all over again.
She used to sleep in the love to dream swaddle, then started rolling and is now in the merlin dream suit, which worked wonderfully for several weeks. It's as if she's only just realised she's been unswaddled. :D
Does anyone have any experience with this and maybe some advice? Could it just be a developmental phase while she figures out how to use her hands properly?
Thank you!
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Grabby hands stopping 5 month old from falling asleep
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Spoonly · 15/11/2023 16:11
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