name changed for this. since having 7mo ds i have become increasingly pissed off with h's slack approach to domestic tasks. basically he refuses to accept responsibility for any of them and would live like a pig given half the chance. i know this is true because i saw his flat before we moved in together.....before ds i was happy to do the lion's share, and could nag him to pitch in a bit at weekends. however, the workload has increased so much and h is just not doing his fair share.
i feel like i've tried everything. i have nagged, shouted, cried, remained calm, got angry, done everything (am not prepared to do nothing, i can't live in filth) gone home to mum, written to him and talked to him. all with minimal improvement.
he will watch ds whilst i have a lie in occasionally. this weekend i got two lie ins whilst he minded ds, but that's all he does, ie nappies aren't put in the bin, dishes don't go in the dishwasher , the place looks like a bomb's hit it.
so i'm going on sex strike. i'm hoping it's the one thing that will get his attention. nothing else gets taken seriously. has anyone else tried this and has it been / not been successful?
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has anyone else done this?
tmiforaday · 13/07/2009 08:11
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