Things have not been going well with my partner for a while now, we have 3 young children together and I would really like him to leave. I know he won't go though. We have a joint mortgage, although I do not contribute financially, and even if he agreed to leave he wouldn't pay the mortgage if he wasn't living in the house.
I just don't know what to do. My only option the way I see it, is to try and find a property to rent privately and hope that the council will cover the rent. My dd has just started school locally and I really don't want to unsettle her anymore than she would be, by making her change schools.
Is there anything else I can do? The children know that something is up, he hasn't spoken to me all week. I cannot imagine living the rest of my life in this miserable situation, I just want to be happy. I don't want my children to grow up thinking that this is a normal relationship, I want something better for them.
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Can I get my partner to leave?
verymiserable · 29/03/2003 10:04
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