Ok I know what you are all going to say. So before I start let me say I have no-one to talk to about it and if I don't get it off my chest I may just find the nearest train track an wait for a passing train.
DH claims not to have been happy for years. He has hardly spoken to me for the last year and goes about with the longest face you have ever seen. He snaps at me and the dcs when he is actually here which isn't much as he has a very demanding job and is always deathly tired when he is at home.
I am overweight and he has been moaning about it for years. I desperately want to lose weight (for me actually before you pounce) but just can't stick to diets at all and have given up trying. Also he tells me I am thick and complains about the books I read an the fact that I don't know what is going on in the world ( I don't read the newspapers or payt much attention to the news.)I have a masters degree BTW.
He never talks to me, just communicates through text which he did this morning from the aiport to tell me that, although he is not having an affair, he wants to either get a divorce, live away from home during the week and come home at weekends or jump under a train as he is so unhappy. I have to choose.
He threatened to leave 6 months ago unless I lost weight.
I have been with him for 25 years and it has been like this for the last 3 or so. We had good times before that and I thought he was my soul mate. I just want things back the way they were.
I am now in pieces and have to try and keep things together as my dad, granny, uncle and very seriously ill mum are coming round for a mother's day lunch.
Kids also want to do the whole mother's day thing and I just want to curl up in a ball and weep.
No one and I mean NO NONE knows any thing about our marital problems I have never told anyone and all our families think we are blissfully happy.
I have no friends to talk to about this.
Thankyou for listening.
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I think he is leaving
weepingfig · 02/03/2008 10:00
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