Any advice how to get out of this relationship?
Very long story short. Been together 22 years, it’s all Iv ever known. Two kids 9 & 5. It’s toxic. I’m crying all day everyday and we argue constantly and it’s affecting the kids. I know we will be happier without him but I don’t know how to get away from him.
We rent, I have no family and no money to move out. Iv asked him to leave he won’t! What can I do?
He doesn’t help financially.
he has no interest in spending time with kids / as a family.
Does not do any housework and is very messy. If he drops some food it stays there. Dirty clothes all over the house.
Out drinking Three nights a week in a state when he comes home.
Morning after he lays around in a mood.
I suspect he’s on drugs and have found evidence.
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MeMe123123 · 06/08/2022 14:47
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