Hey Everyone,
It’s been a good two years since I was last here, I remember @Marlboroandmalbec34 from back then. If anyone remembers I met Miss B&B, fell madly in love and we split up about a year ago now so I stayed off apps as I wasn’t fully committed to it.
Since then I met another lovely girl, but she’s the lesbian version of a guy - we were friends, she said the right thing, we slept together for a couple of months then out of the blue starts telling me about the new girls she’s talking to on Tinder now she wants to date again. For the first time in my life I realised I’d been made a fool of and told her my feelings meant we couldn’t be friends and we couldn’t talk anymore. That was four weeks ago, and bar one brief chat when I accidentally called her last week we haven’t spoke. Not speaking really has helped as it’s got me over it way quicker and I feel proud of myself for taking back control of the situation.
So, onto now. I went on Tinder, matched with quite a few people but I had that instant spark and connection with the last girl and just wanted to replicate that. Anyway met a girl Miss Vintage, and we’ve been texting for about a week non stop now, we are going on a date next Thursday (as I refused to meet anyone until I’ve been to the hairdresser!) and I’m really excited. I’m not on any apps anymore, as if this didn’t work out I’m quite happy to be single for now, but she seems lovely and we have a lot of football banter. I worry as she’s admitted she suffers from anxiety, and I don’t want our date to make her feel that way and I always worry how I’ll deal with it day to day if it did go well, but that’s the overthinker in me.
It’s lovely to see people settling down, I’m so happy for everyone who’s found love as those apps are awful!! My Manager went on for a few days and came off as the men all have either pictures of them at a wedding or uncensored pictures with their children, and she said also send a lot of innuendo based texts. So she wants to now meet someone the traditional way.