Not started the divorce yet.
But, my soon to ex has said he wants 50/50 which I’m going to contest as the children need one stable environment.
He earns £50k and I earn £30k. Will he have to pay maintenance if the judge awards 50/50?
Also what is spousal maintenance and do I quality in this situation?
Married 10 years. Two children 6 and 5.
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50/50 childcare and child maintenance
Iceland22 · 06/03/2018 13:57
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ALittleBitConfused1 · 06/03/2018 16:22
I don't see why you would need him to. You both earn the same, you both intend on having equal time (which adds up to equal costs) for your dc. Why would you want or need him to pay spousal maintenance or child maintenance costs, surely you're able to support yourself with your salary and when your dc are with him 50% of the time he will be covering all related costs.
YellowMakesMeSmile · 06/03/2018 18:53
50/50 can be great for the children, they aren't owned by either parent and deserve a decent relationship with both.
You won't get spousal maintenance, judges are awarding it less and less. Given you have your own income, then it's highly unlikely. Giving up a job and taking another was a choice when having children. Maybe 50/50 care would mean you could return to a similar job if you regret moving careers.
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