OH's father remarried exactly a year after the death of their mother, who he'd been married to for 40 years. He became ill 5 years after new marriage and his wife effectively isolated his sons & daughters.. he's sleeping you can't see him, that kind of thing. A lot of animosity all round I but anyway, he passed away last July. Left the property to his wife and specified 50% of property funds to be equally divided between his 3 children and 8 grandchildren. It didnt work out equally at all as wife still lives in the house, has her family from abroad living in there now, and it was discovered house had been remortgaged twice anyway + lots of home improvements done. I didnt get into the full ins & outs of it all but his children got sweet f.a. as there was nothing to inherit financially really and they do not own a share of the house.
Even if theyd wanted to challenge their stepmother (I think sister queried this) what could they have done anyway? She was their father's wife.
I really can't see how someone can protect their inherited property in some of the ways explained on MN? If you marry and live in the marital home then your partner is entitled to a share, even if not on the deeds. Im thinking of the other thread too - I can't fathom all the different explanations. Its as if some know the law but think their calculations and stipulations and what they decide is "fair" can somehow change the law to suit. It doesnt work like that at all so makes no sense to me.
Im reading skyes comment - that is the reality of it
Im 12 years until mortgage free, been with OH a few years but Ive no intention of marrying. I've no input or concern into what he leaves for his children, likewise same with me. Our relationship works well and we don't talk or wrangle about property. I own - he does not.
When I die I will leave my property to my DDs and nobody on earth is going to be able to come along and say well, you have a man now so that means you must make sure he is entitled to a share of the home you've worked hard to pay for over the years, and make sure you and DDs have a roof over your head. Or tell me that Im unfair. Id rather be unfair than a fool.
If a man idn't like my stance Id understand, but it wouldn't change a thing. Im a mum - my children come 1st and thats that.
I can't see how OP can protect her inheritance in the event anything goes wrong, I think its a risk you take in life and love