Tonight i was getting dinner ready and sorting things out for fathers day like a normal grown up does. My in laws arrived said a quick hello and went straight to see dh in garden i carried on with my duties. Five minutes later i pop out and ask if a drink has been offered and would they like one yes please from all.i Carry on with things. Then dh comes in and accuses me of having an attitude problem as they had asked should they go home. I cant bloody win if i dont clean and tidy mil looks around disapprovingly and they were the fucking ones who went straight in the garden.
so following this i decide to go out with tea and apologise despite me not being in the wrong. Then dh flies of the handle and goes upstairs in a mood because i have done the wrong thing again. This then causes a blazing row for an hour how he does not like me anymore and he has not been happy for a while and i should move out more arguing everything blamed on me despite me spending 18months getting our mrraige bk on track he wont work through his problems wont go to counselling and i cant do anything right. I dont work and am a sahm. Wise ladies what do u think of this behaviour has someone turned his to behave like this? I have told him no one else has a problem with my personality like he does. We have argued alot like this before but i think this time i need advice on what benefits i am entitled to as he is not interested in working on our marraige. And i dont want to be with someone i cant laugh with or be myself.
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