Just that, really.
My DH is a good man in many respects - brilliant with the kids, treats me well, good on a 'practical' level. We have three children and have been through a lot together.
But increasingly I feel like he often doesn't 'get' me, or actually, can't really be bothered to.
I've been through a very stressful time recently for various reasons, and it makes me feel better to talk things over. I have good friends, thank god. Because if I ever attempt to suggest I'm anything slightly other than happy and capable, Dh accuses me of 'moaning', or 'complaining' or 'being a victim'. I'm really not: I'm pretty tough, actually. If he's had a crappy day at work, or something is bothering him, I will happily listen and offer support. I don't get the same back.
He's supportive in other ways I guess, but I'm not sure it's good enough, really. Just wondering if there are any others in this position? Anyone else think 'right, better talk to my best mate then...' if anything is troubling them, rather than their husband?
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how much does your partner support you emotionally?
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bucketsofmoonbeams · 09/03/2014 14:50
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