MIL likes to have the whole family round on boxing day, always has. DHs brothers have 5 children between them aged 22-17. DS is 7 and an only.
When the others were young, they had each other to play with, at least two parents would look after them, and as youngest adults we always played with them.
Yesterday, we arrived at 11.30 and everyone was drinking alcohol and had been for a while. Once we'd done presents, ds wanted to play Monopoly with someone. But no one would - just drinking and fiddling on phones. Then bil1 decided that it was time to go to the pub, and so a contingent went there. Ds and I played monopoly... They came back, drank more. Tried to interest anyone in a game of anything, but still no.
After dinner at 3, most of them fell asleep. DH was helping his mum cook/washup etc - none of the cousins help at all.
Ds is just desperate for any of his aunts/uncles/cousins/gps to interact with him, but its not happening. I don't want to do this again next year, but MIL would be hurt.
Any ideas to manage this better?
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Very much younger ds upset that his cousins won't play with him - any ideas?
CMOTDibbler · 27/12/2013 13:38
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