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I think I'm going to finish with DP

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Johnny5needsinput · 02/09/2013 18:14

I'm a regular. Please don't out me if you recognise me. I am female the user name is from a film called short circuit.

I'm going to finish with DP. I feel sick.

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Lizzabadger · 14/09/2013 11:28

Oh sod that. Eat chocolate cake and watch trash then go out dancing!

Johnny5needsinput · 14/09/2013 11:12

Washing and ironing .....

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Lizzabadger · 14/09/2013 10:49

Good on you!

You are well-rid.

Hope you are doing lots of nice things.

Johnny5needsinput · 14/09/2013 09:25

Doing good. Still haven't heard from him. Spent last night out with a bunch of girlfriends. I do miss him but I also like being able to be me.

Dd is with her dad this weekend so I'm keeping myself busy.

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cloudskitchen · 14/09/2013 09:08

How are you doing Johnny?

SequinsOfEvents · 14/09/2013 04:50

Hi Johnny

Hope all is going well for you and you've stayed strong and away from this man.

It's been over almost a week since you last posted and I was just wondering.

Hope you're well

PseudoBadger · 09/09/2013 19:57

Stay strong :)

Johnny5needsinput · 09/09/2013 19:45

I'm going to have a bath and go to bed. I ache.

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Johnny5needsinput · 09/09/2013 19:31

I want to shout and rant and yell at him. But if I do he'd just twist it against me.

So I'm eating chocolate cake and mnetting instead :D

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PseudoBadger · 09/09/2013 19:30

So ask yourself - if he contacts you, or does any of those things in your last post - what do you want out of it? What will you do? This no contact seems hard now, but it's surely easier in the long term as you could put him out if your mind now and move on.

Johnny5needsinput · 09/09/2013 19:21

I haven't contacted him. I won't. That would give him power over me. I know that, logically. But god I miss him.

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tripper20 · 09/09/2013 19:18

You are worth more than all the empty words, texts, calls, flowers he could send. He's hoping you'll be missing him and is waiting for you to contact him. Then you'll be back to square one - again.

Johnny5needsinput · 09/09/2013 19:12

He still hasn't contacted me. Not a word. No text. No phone call. No visit. No flowers. No dramatic gesture. Is that really all I was worth? Nothing?

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PseudoBadger · 09/09/2013 19:10

Read back through the thread. Remind yourself what an arse he is. Turn off your phone and delete his number.

Johnny5needsinput · 09/09/2013 19:06

This is not a good night. I'm sitting here in tears. I miss him.

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Johnny5needsinput · 07/09/2013 20:05

Lol. Similar but foyles war here

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Vivacia · 07/09/2013 19:55

That's the rock and roll lifestyle I live, you see?

Vivacia · 07/09/2013 19:55

Are you in to the X Factor? I'm going to join in with the thread in Telly Addicts at 8.

Johnny5needsinput · 07/09/2013 19:53

Nthing. Dd has a friend round. We are out all day tomorrow at my cousins. So a night off is no bad thing.

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Vivacia · 07/09/2013 19:40

What have you got planned for the evening?

Johnny5needsinput · 07/09/2013 19:10

Thanks all. Tonight I am not so good. I suspect even though I don't drink I am knackered after last night.

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Fairenuff · 07/09/2013 10:06

So glad you went out and enjoyed yourself Johnny. Maybe make a note of that and stick it on your fridge so that next time, if you can't be bothered, it will give you that little reminder.

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Johnny5needsinput · 07/09/2013 10:02

Lol that made me smile. You're right.

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changeforthebetter · 07/09/2013 09:54

perhaps you don't miss him, just a someone to share stuff with. driving home from work after a tough day I'd love to have a dp for a hug. I get two stroppy overtired primary kids instead. but I really wouldn't have my wankferret back. I'm worth more and si are you

Johnny5needsinput · 07/09/2013 07:29

I'm really not that great, but thanks . I miss him. But not enough to want him back. If we had still been together I probably wouldn't have gone last night because he would have moaned and huffed and puffed and it would have been easier to stay at home.

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