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Books or films with narcissistic characters?

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Biscuitsareme · 20/08/2013 11:37

I've only recently 'discovered' narcissistic behaviour and it's been a real eye-opener to me. Now there are some characters in books and films that really hit me as narcissistic.

I'll go first:

Muriel's Wedding: Muriel's awful awful father

Jonathan Strange and Mr Norrell: the Gentleman with the Thistledown Hair
(although Strange and Norrell have traits I suppose)

Any more?

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NadiaWadia · 02/09/2013 00:31

Well some of these are probably correct but I think we have to be careful of labelling every not-so-nice person as a narcissist.

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bruffin · 01/09/2013 11:44

House in some ways

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SpecialAgentCuntSnake · 01/09/2013 10:43

Bill from Big Love, absolutely.

I see-saw on Nicki though.

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Lottapianos · 01/09/2013 10:11

Janice and Livia Soprano for sure

I'm not sure about Don Draper. He cares very deeply for Peggy and for Joan. He does dreadful self-destructive things and hurts people very badly but I do think he feels shame for it deep down. He has moments when he is kind to his children. He's certainly very impulsive and seems hellbent on sabotaging his own happiness and security. He's a fantastic character and I identify with his deep-down, well-hidden sense of aching sadness and loneliness. I'm not sure he's a narcissist but happy to be proved wrong Smile

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bruffin · 01/09/2013 10:03

Seventh Veil may not necessarily be a narc but a very psychologically creepy film.

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colleysmill · 01/09/2013 08:51

Gaslight is a marvellous film - very very creepy!

What about the character Svengali in George du Mauriers novel Trilby? I always thought he might be a narc.

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CCTVmum · 01/09/2013 04:58

91/2 weeks

Copycat

Gaslighting ( I have not seen this old film but this is where it comes from)

The joker in Batman

these are more psychopathic with nassicism characteristics (goes hand in hand)

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FeijoaVodkaLovesHokeyPokey · 31/08/2013 23:54

Regina and Mr Gold in Once Upon A Time (plus Regina's Mum, Hook and others)

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Bumpotato · 31/08/2013 23:27

J R Ewing

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dreamingoflavender · 28/08/2013 22:51

Blanche Dubois is in Streetcar named Desire and I would say she's more obsessive/compulsive from what I remember of her.

If anyone has read The Glass Menagerie by Tennessee Williams, Amanda Wing (the mother) is possibly a good example.

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justwondering72 · 28/08/2013 20:48

Blanche Dubois, Cat on a hot tin Roof. Tennessee Williams.

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dreamingoflavender · 28/08/2013 20:06

I'm not sure Cathy or Heathcliff fit the definition of narcissistic characters.

Heathcliff came from the streets of Liverpool in the late 1700s, at time when the 'triangular trade' meant slavery was rife in cities such as Liverpool. I have always felt that the character of Heathcliff was black, or at least, mixed race, hence the numerous references to him being 'dark' 'foreign' 'gypsy.'

Cathy loved Heathcliff but it would have "degraded" her to marry him because of his looks, and because of his background; narcissistic people cannot love. Heathcliff certainly loved Cathy, but he fixated on revenge on those around him rather than the love he had for Cathy.

I agree they both probably had some sort of personality disorder (histrionic for Cathy probably - Heathcliff I am not so sure, anti-social perhaps?) but they were not narcissistic.

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Loopytiles · 28/08/2013 20:05

Oberon in midsummer night's dream.

Hamlet.

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bumbleymummy · 28/08/2013 19:47

There are bound to be several in Jilly Cooper! :)

Maud O'Hara is springing to mind...

Possibly Helen Campbell-Black? (re-reading Riders at the moment and she's driving me mad with the whole Jake thing.)

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Crumbelina · 28/08/2013 19:38

Definitely Ferris Bueller. Not a thought for poor Cameron when he took the Ferrari. Everyone enabled him (and even Jeanie succumbed at the end).

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FabricQueen · 28/08/2013 18:56

And Catch Me If You Can, that's a good one. (film)

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FabricQueen · 28/08/2013 18:55

Yy to Zenia in The Robber Bride by Margaret Atwood, and the character of Madame Bovary (what a fantastic book that is).
Also the film Imagine Me and You, in my opinion.

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spanky2 · 28/08/2013 18:46

Obviously lowering the tone ...Squidward Tentacles in Sponge Bob.Grin

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EugenesAxe · 25/08/2013 01:51

Quentin Villiers in Dead Babies by Martin Amis. He's part psychopath too IMO but I'm no psychiatrist so I may be wrong.

Personally wouldn't consider Emma Woodhouse a narcissist. What about Larry Durrell in 'My Family and...'? I can't decide - 2nd opinions needed.

My DSis jokingly calls me Bella Sad

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skyeskyeskye · 25/08/2013 01:37

Dark Angel is the book about Constance.

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Meringue33 · 25/08/2013 01:08

White Oleander

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lottieandmia · 25/08/2013 00:50

Yes, Hatsumomo San was totally messed up imo!

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GetStuffezd · 24/08/2013 21:14

Hatsumomo from Memoirs of a Geisha

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Iwaswatchingthat · 24/08/2013 20:52

shrekkingallover
Was just coming on to post Jay Gatsby! Just read that book and you are right - it is chokka with narcissists.

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