I went to see her yesterday with bf and we were talking & I corrected him over something that is a habit that I have. He wanted to make it aware that he was right and I was wrong so (what sounded to me like a joke) repeatedly told me to "shut up". Now, I could tell by the look on my sisters face that she didn't approve with him butting in on me saying something and telling me to shut up but I moved to another subject. She thinks he's rude because he said hello to my dad & her partner but didn't say anything else to them or engage in conversation with them afterwards. In fairness he could have done and did have chances to but I put it down to him just not wanting to. I know my sister doesn't approve of him because he is quite competitive and very much "if it's not perfect in my eyes it's not perfect at all". Little things bother him. For example if there's no bacon that he likes in the shop, he'll continually say how upset and pissed off he is. That to me isn't something to be pissed about. My sister said she thinks he's arrogant, stuck up & in his own bubble where he's right and everyone else is wrong. She said he makes excuses, won't accept where he's wrong and that if I answer back with my opinion and he sticks to his opinion he'll turn it into an argument. I hadn't noticed this but I nad noticed that Yesterday he seemed a bit grumpy. I can see what she means. He's not horrible to me but I can see how she means. I do feel silly when he tells me to shut up and when I tell him not to talk to me like that he laughs and says hes joking and he's sorry. He also won't take anything I say seriously. He laughs about everything that's serious to me and it makes me feel like I'm thick. Urgh I don't want to go through a break up tbh. We've been together 2yrs, he gets on with dd and I would just like to be settled with that.
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