Just want to muse some more on latest posts. No news, as the gay guy hasn't contacted the friend for a week, even though she gave him a pretext to contact (some work-related stuff) and he now has her details. So it looks to me, that he is oblivious and cold as you say, Don, beyond being friendly, or he did notice her attarction and activel doesn't want to encourage it, probably the latter.
Don, I see, but what about straight people who never have dc, especially if by choice? I s'pose they are still potentially breeders (still a yukky term!) -so still called that.
Interesting about your brother, some gays don't like women at all, some like them as friends, to me makes sense (the latter) as there must be some psychological resemblence between gays and women, it's some kind of gene they are sharing (or brain make-up) that defines their attarctions. The women haters can be hetero men, possibly more than gays, who knows.
But Wally was saying that for her friend it's cerebral connection, so he used to be with women before - so what I'm interested in, is for MOST gays, is it all about the Mighty Penis, or it's the male behaviour characteristics and visuals that excite them? I still think that tomboyish women are more of a possible choice for gays then very feminine, and I mean not just in looks but general behaviour.
But still confusing, as I know one (mature) gay who is literally like a woman in everything but body parts - dressed in blouses, subtle eyeliner, slender/graceful, all the mannerisms of a woman, and the voice soft etc, and still of course attracts gays, so in this case everything does come down to having penis.
*Mimi', by sexually repelled I mean ability to actually have sex, not finding someone sexy to look at, very different!
Hmm Wally, I did think that the one who used to be with women was likely to be different in some way.