My xh when he left said please don't stop me seeing the girls.even when i found out some really hurtful things i never stopped him seeing the girls. But he never sees our girls. Why? Because he is always putting his gf first has cancelled visiting days so he can go to hers. He forgets to call our eldest daughter on the day arranged. He only has the girls three hours every two weeks and calls once a week but he can not keep to it. My eldest who is 4 now doesn't care if she sees her dad and my youngest who's 1 does not know her dad from adam.
I can not understand why a man who says his girls are number one can then just drop them. He's now talking about moving to gf who lives two hours away. I feel so sad for my girls my eldest even asked if we could get a new daddy as the old one does not visit anymore.
I know i can't force him to see the girls but what can i do to stop them getting hurt
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raspberyfool · 20/01/2013 08:20
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