I've been a member here for a long time but have changed details for this.
I will try to be as honest and balanced as I can.
Yesterday I accidentally came upon a facebook conversation that DP has been having with another woman for many months with lots of xxxx's and affection. This has happened before with online/txts with other women too.
DP and I have been together for over 7 years. During those years be both have been subject to a LOT of stress.
In the last 3 months DP effectively lost his became jobless after his phd course was ended.
I guess I have used alcohol too much too cope with life for far too long and DP has used other women to support him because I am not available.
I need to work to pay all the bills. Very confused, sorry
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bummymummy1 · 10/12/2012 18:12
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