My mother is forever criticising everything about me my family(partner and offspring)and my weight personal choices and even the way I teach my kids as a home educator.I just don't quite know what to do anymore.Today I was telling her about my son and his friend having a disscussion on religion.I am bringing my son up so that he knows all different theories on the subject and allowing him to decide how he feels.I was brought up to believe and now I don't exactly believe in god and don't think it matters anyway.
My mum replied when I said that my son had told his friend that there was no god,by asking me if that was his opinion or mine.I told her that it was his and she accused me of telling my son that there was no god and of pushing my opinions on to him because I have refused to allow her to study her religion with my child.I had to do this as I know how she did this with me and will not have my son thinking that he has to do as she says.My mother is very pushy on the religion thing and I took a long time to start asking questions when younger.I am a dissapointment to her as I have not gotten married and I choose to live my life my own way.
Her religion does not agree with a lot of things such as homosexuality and this causes a problem as one of my sons friends has a mother who is.
I am forever being criticised by her for everything but this was the most annoying for a few weeks.
Does anyone have any idea how I can deal with her as I'm at the end of my tether?She wasn't anywhere near a perfect mum far from it and she still thinks she has the right to tell me how to be a mum.I know I'm not perfect as I suffer with depression this is obvious but unlike her I try not to let it affect my kids.
Any advice appreciated as this is a particularly awkward situation.(causing a lot of the deppresion is my mother and the way she is and has always been with me.)
Sorry to moan so but I don't know wether or not to just tell her the truth about her own parenting or just leave it and shut up and put up
Sorry again know this is long posting.
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singingmum · 14/09/2003 15:32
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