Having been a TA in an Infant school for ten years, and in Secondary for a couple of years - at the risk of being too provocative - I have known Year 9 kids that could NOT read this sentence fluently and with full understanding!
I have only been in MN a few weeks, but, like a few other post-ees, I have been dismayed at the parental obsession with "reading" at an early age.
Many years ago I think it was Glen Doman (or some such name) advocated teaching babies to read by the use of large flash-cards from a few months old.
Forgive me if I upset people, but the offspring of MN families are NOT your average child; as parents you are obviously clever enough and motivated enough to join MN and take part in these discussions. I have worked with children whose parents can't confidently read and write, some can barely converse in proper sentences. When I try and convince children that the word "think" is thus spelt, they might say, No, it must be "fink" - because that is the only way they have ever heard it spoken.
It has been said that seventy percent of a child's reading ability comes from home. Presently, two days a week (as a volunteer) I support a Reception group of five children in a mixed KS1 class, and they are learning to recognise the first few sounds - s, a, t, i, m. And even this is an uphill struggle. Some can now sound out, or recognise, "Sam sit": we count that as progress! If, as is quite possible, the ONLY use of sounds, words and reading, is what they get in school, and there is NO support or reinforcement of reading in the home, it is hardly surprising that many children come to the end of Primary school with a reading age of around seven.
It was the media revelation a few months ago of the low standards of reading in Year 6 that prompted me to Google "reading standards" : Mumsnet came up first, followed by BBC. I have made a few 'posts' on Primary topics, and in due course hope to delve deeper into this educational 'minefield'!
If I have shocked, annoyed or in other ways, distressed you, I do apologise.
Regards,
Ferguson