I don’t like the idea of my children being online.
I started prioritising gaming online with friends when I was about 17 and that was the end of any academic ambition that I had.
The thing is that I am becoming more and more aware of other children at school playing together online and I know how bonding it can be.
I am starting to worry that my children are at risk of becoming irrelevant in social groups at school because they don’t have an online presence.
At the same time I’m thinking how ridiculously codependent it is for my children to spend all day stuck at school with a group of friends and then come home to be stuck online with them.
Has anyone been resolute in not letting their children online and seen any effect on their peer relationships?
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AM786 · 24/12/2022 07:59
Our 10 and 14 DD's don't have online social media. (Or not that I've discovered yet). I've only just given my 14y DD a phone for coming from school (Google maps tracking) but she can't install apps without my online approval through family link. She does use hangouts chat every now and again.
We are fortunate that most of the parents don't allow it and our school don't allow phones in school.
In my opinion, it's better to be left out than to have all that online rubbish to deal with. Be strong and stay firm.
Perhaps join them to a karate club or do some outdoor activities to keep them active and busy.
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