I am in the bizarre situation of having a ds10 who won’t let me leave him upstairs whilst he is going to sleep.
I have to wait until he is asleep until I creep downstairs hoping I don’t make a sound and alert him to the fact I’m going downstairs just like the toddler years. In fact, he was better as a toddler, just used to let me read to him, give him a cuddle then off I went.
We moved house two and a half years ago and since then we haven’t been able to leave him in bed awake (unless his older brother was in the room next door - but he is always out now in the evenings). The house is old, but not spooky, we are in the sitting room directly beneath his bedroom and he can hear us chatting so it’s not silent and we are not far away. He has a night light on and hall light.
He says he thinks something might happen to him but that’s as specific as he gets so I’m clueless as to his fear.
It’s making me very bitter and angry, plus frustrated, here it is ten o’clock (he went up at nine) and I’m still up here, might as well go to bed myself. Haven’t had a chance to have a chat with dh.
Help, what can I do?
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Litthefirealready · 15/10/2020 22:04
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