My son is 12, nearly 13. He said for sometime he has had feelings from time to time about imagining himself as a girl/female. He wasnt worried about these feelings but he googled it as he was interested and the first article that came up was about Autogynephillia, I personally had never heard of this before. The article that he read said, men with this are normally selfish narcissists, who have failed marriages and financial failure, destroying their relationships. He was absolutely beside himself after reading this. The first thing I knew of there being something wrong was when he asked if I thought he was a narcissist, he is the polar opposite of one, he then burst into tears and it was 2 hours before he told me and he kept saying that it was so bad, he just couldn't tell me. Fast forward 2 weeks and he still needs reassurance every day, he thinks he is a bad person and he is worried he will have a miserable life. :-( hes such a kind, clever boy he hates to upset anyone. He suffers from ocd/intrusive thoughts too. What can I say to him to reassure him? Help please xxx
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