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Today 00:01Dalamane
DD has had some uncomfortable & confrontational times at school since September, the usual mix of unruly kids who disrupt lessons and make others' lives as unbearable as they can - gossiping & making stories up, ganging up on people and basically being the horrid kids from hell. DD is having problems dealing with it all, and whilst before Xmas she'd be angry about it and a bit upset at times, she's now a quivering wreck who doesn't want to go to school and cries all the time when she's at home. She ended a friendship just before Xmas cos the girl in question told her endless lies, and a few times DD lost her temper with her but she also spent considerable time trying to help this friend and point her in the right direction. We've had a month where this ex friend has appeared everywhere DD goes at school and has said various things to her both indirectly and directly, and in text messages/via snapchat - quite pathetic really - and DD has stayed silent but livid inside. I'm so worried about her, she says her head is full of negative thoughts and she's remembering all bad stuff that 'could have' happened but didn't - she can't switch off & says she doesn't know how or what to do anymore. Her closest friend is on holiday and her other friend doesn't give 2 hoots about anything/just keeps her head down.
We chat every evening but I don't know what to do, we swim 3 times a week, is this a GP issue?any help advice gratefully received x
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Dalamane · 16/01/2018 00:07
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