Hi I'm new on here so not really sure of all the shortcuts i.e dd and ds etc so sorry I waffle on ;0)
I would really love some advice on how to deal with my 9yr old daughter, I think its all down to hormones, but lately really feel at my wits end with her and feeling like I'm failing her!
I'm in tears most days ;0(
She seems to have a huge chip on her shoulder, she has no respect for anyone or anything, treats her friends horrendously and is very rude to my husband and myself, she is also refusing to do any homework or leaving it right to the last minute and then its a huge drama! I have 5 daughters and try to give all of them the same amount of time and attention, I've asked her about being bullied, but now think I've put something in her head as one minute she says she is by certain girls in her class, then the next minute they all want a sleepover and are best friends (which I know is a normal girl thing). She is also very tearful and just generally seems to have the world on her shoulders, she is good with her sisters apart from no2 who is 18mnths younger, she just doesn't seem to get on with her.
I really do just feel at a loss, Ihave treid sitting down with her several times to talk about her feelings but she just replies with "everyone is annoying me"! I have thought to spk to her teacher, but wouldn't know where to begin!
She was such a happy girl and shes very bright, feel like I don't know her anymore (that seems so dramatic lol!)
Not really sure why I've written on here, but feel like I have no-one else to ask.
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Jeri82 · 14/12/2011 13:28
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