I'm in a bit of a predicament about whether or not to and my 2yo son to preschool. He has not long since turned 2 (last month), is rather shy around other children, and is very strongly attached to me (as I am to him). However, he doesn't get as much attention from me at home anymore as I also have a 3-month-old; I take him outside to the park etc every single day so we get time for just the two of us but at home I can tell he's bored when I'm seeing to baby.
Despite being 2yo, he cannot yet talk - my HV had advised taking him to playgroups and going to preschool to socialise with children his own age which should help his language development.
Today I took him to playgroup for the first time and he loved it! I was so delighted! He was confidently running around playing and even approached a few children to engage in play with which made me so happy to see him coming out of his shell.
I noticed that a lot of the time he wasn't even looking for me to see if I was there (whereas when we go to the park, soft play centres etc) he always checks to see where I am. But today he was too busy playing and having fun, only looking for me a handful of times. He was so upset when the session was over as he was having so much fun.
This got me thinking as to whether he is ready for preschool. He would get to spend longer there paying and engaging with children his own age, but I'm just worried how he will be without me there at such a young age.
All of the preschools that are accessible to me only offer 3 full days a week under the 15hrs free 2 year old child care. I was really hoping to start him on just one or two half days a week and work our way up to longer. I feel so worried about leaving him there and not being able to see if he's in trouble, etc, which sounds a bit overbearing I know, but he's my baby and he's still so young. It worries me that if he feels sad or someone else is mean to him he can't even tell anyone whats happened yet.
So what do you think would be the best solution? I'm contemplating just continuing with playgroup for now and maybe looking at preschools for summer or autumn term? Has anyone else been in this situation and what was the outcome?
I'm sure there's many other posts like this but I wanted to share my personal situation to get the best response.
Thanks!
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Mmamadness · 12/01/2024 17:36
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