May be a bit long winded so I appreciate if you make it to the end.
My sister has a 8 year old dog who today went for my 4.5 year old at our mums house. My 4 year old was told to stop running around the dog but no effort was made to move the dog out the way and she ran slightly too close and the dog whipped round and barred her teeth and growled at her. Both my sisters who were in the room then told my 4 year old off saying you can’t run around the dog but neither of them said anything to the dog (not even telling her off)
My 4 year old wasn’t hyper or out of control she was just being a normal busy child.
Bit of back story on the dog. She’s had a few operations on her front elbows so can be in pain sometimes and as a result can be grumpy to both dogs and children.
She has gone for a couple of dogs before and has bitten another child (through a coat so no skin was broken) as the child accidentally fell on her so she was startled and bit the child on the arm. And she also went for but didn’t bit another child when they were playing with a ball and she wanted it. (she can be quite possessive over toys and food)
So both myself and husband are on the same page saying we want neither of our children (we also have a 8 month old who’s starting to move around) around said dog anymore as why risk a potential bite situation but my sister and her husband don’t believe their dog is a the problem as they blamed my daughter this time and the other children on the previous times.
I really don’t want a family falling out over this so want advice on how others would navigate.
Have we over reacted or are we justified in how we are thinking?
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sunshinecg · 24/03/2024 23:21
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