We named our recently born DS Thomas but DH and I can't agree on the correct possessive ...
I think that - unless two people called Thomas are involved - it is Thomas's but DH backed by a very well-educated friend (together with a quick Google search) imply that all is not black and white and that Thomas' is now acceptable. Apparently there is a whole "less is more" modern school of thought out there.
Please help. Am running out of ways to avoid the issue in the thank you notes ....