I’ve told my 21 yo son he can’t return home until he starts behaving like an adult. High functioning Aspergers. Has a job and a gf. Basically, throughout all of his life, he’s made us walk in eggshells and has been violent and aggressive. Still very volatile and unpredictable. He’s got a habit of actively not talking to people for years. I defended him when he was arrested for stalking and harassment. It’s been disclosed that he’s been accused of sexual abuse also. No matter what I do, no matter what I say, he thinks his way is the right way. He’s got no respect, he actively hates his family and shows it, frequently. I’ve spent my life raising a son who thinks he’s high above everyone and that everything should revolve around him. I think he’s currently staying with his gf. Am I wrong for telling him not to come back? I’m worried I’ve lost him forever but he makes our lives a total misery
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