My dd aged 2 spends every other weekend at her father?s. A few weeks ago, he needed to go upstairs and as he hasn?t got a stair gate, he told her to stay downstairs. As you can imagine, she didn?t stay downstairs, tried to climb up the stairs and predictably, fell down. Luckily she wasn?t badly hurt, just a few bruises. Of course when he told me I was livid and told him either to get a stair gate or to take her with him when he goes upstairs.
He still hasn?t got a stair gate, and I have now found out that he still leaves her downstairs by herself. I cannot understand how he can be so irresponsible, I have asked, pleaded, shouted for him to get a stair gate. He says of course he doesn?t want her to get hurt but always has a ?good? excuse not to get one.
I am now very worried that one day she will fall down the stairs and get seriously injured. I don?t know what to do, short of saying that she will not go to his place unless he gets a stair gate, which will certainly create arguments. Also I really value my ?free? weekends and don?t want dd to miss out on contact with her father.
Am I overreacting? I would really appreciate your thoughts on this, as I am not sure how to handle the situation.
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Irresponsible father or overreacting mother?
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mammya · 11/05/2003 22:30
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