I was at my husband's rugby club at the weekend and was feeding my ds his bottle. This woman who I had never met before and was with the opposition so nothing to do with our club suddenly came over and said "can I hold him?"
I was a bit taken back that firstly she was a stranger and secondly I was in the middle of feeding him. I said (a bit stroppily tbh) "I'm in the middle of feeding him" She just then stood there for a while which was putting ds off and eventually she walked off.
It made me think though, that if he hadn't been feeding, how I could have said no as I sometimes feel akward in these situations.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not anti-social and have no problem with people coming over and doing the whole "they're cute/how old/what's their name" etc but am just not really keen for strangers to hold my baby.
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How to say no if a stranger wants to hold your baby?
kellyannlondon · 09/09/2008 19:19
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