Really worried about ds who is 7 on Saturday. He was always a real live wire as a toddler and could be boisterous, although was never spiteful or aggresive just liked running around. Was also quite forward in that he would just go up and chat to other children in the park etc
Over the past year he has changed a lot I would say. He is very quiet and quite shy. He is however very popular and does have lots of friends and seems fine when he is with friends that he knows and is comfortable with.
He is also very bright for his age and it really upset me when his last school report (which was very good) did say that although ds was more than capable of doing the work he often worried about his own capability of doing it. That really upset me.
Anyway he is having a party and he has got himself into such a state over who to invite. Eventually he started crying saying he didn't want to leave anyone out as it would hurt there feelings I felt upset myslef but explained that unfortunately you can't have everyone at your party as you can only have 20. Last year the teacher had handed them out infront of everyone and one little girl came and asked where hers was and ds hadn't invited her and he felt really bad.
Anyway had a quick chat with the teacher and explained that he didn't want to hand them out as last year it had upset him. When ds went in the teacher said that he was sensitive and often bottled things up. She said he was quiet and she was trying to encourage him that it was okay to tell her things if he needed to.
I just feel so bad that it's fault as I am a real worrier myself and I will do everything I can to make sure he isn't!
What can I do to help my ds as I feel really sad today? Feel as though it's something I've done but can't think what
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Ds is a is so quiet and a real worrier. How can I help him???
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Blossomhill · 10/01/2005 12:39
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