My ds turned 1 last week and has always bf to sleep (naps too). When he wakes in the night I have always fed him back to sleep. In the beginning it was obviously because he was waking for a feed and always fell asleep on me, but as time went on it has just become routine (habit). He usually only wakes once a night - which I can live with - but lately he has been creeping back to 2 sometimes 3 (or more if he's teething or off colour) times a night.
The hv came last week to do the 12 month check and told me that controlled crying was the only thing that really works (and works fast). Ds was tired at the time and she convinced me to "try him now" by putting him down for his nap. He is a very contented little boy and we had the most horrendous 40 minutes of sobbing (in between me picking up/cuddling/putting down) I finally got rid of the hv and picked him up again only to have him fall asleep in my arms still sobbing in his sleep. It took two days before he would go back into his cot (asleep) without immediately waking and screaming.
What I really want to know is, has anyone had success stopping bf in the night without cc? I appreciate he might get a bit upset but will he eventually settle with me staying in the room? Also, is there a chance that he might just grow out of the night waking and stop needing bf himself (wishful thinking)?
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How do I stop bf during the night?
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LoonyLouLou78 · 13/09/2013 20:18
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