What do you spend on your kids clothes? Oilily OTT?

[Rhiannon]

I usually shop at Next, M & S and Gap for kids clothes. I've recently spotted a dress I like in an Oilily ad. Now this is definitely going to be expensive for me.

Just wondering where everyone else shops and what you all spend? R

Jasper - I think those trousers sound kinda cool.....!

What about primart, anyone? hit and miss with the sizes available, but £2 for a pair or jeans for a toddler..... please! My new fav.

Jasper, that happens to me fairly often because I must buy less than a quarter of DS's clothes. He is the only grandchild for both Grandmas, plus having three childless aunties and a childless godmother. MIL, in particular, buys him loads of things. The problem I have is that she buys stuff from a shop which stocks seconds etc. Not in itself a problem but I find they tend to be small sizes and DS is quite large. So quite often they're practically too small. Have taken to passing things on to my hairdresser who has a son who is a few months younger.

Sometimes though it would be nice to buy DS things other than vests and sleepsuits and trousers.... But I can't really justify it.

Mainly buy the vests/sleepsuits plus casual clothes at Asda. Also frequent Next outlet shop plus odd bits from a Sale anywhere. Have bought virtually nothing full price from anywhere except Asda.

Did splash out on a hand-made christening suit though...

The sluglet is blessed with plenty of older cousins and a grandma who knits like a dream. Mothercare do make good sleepsuits, and I confess I swapped a whole load of hideous pink stuff we were given for a very cute fake leather jacket so she could match her daddy.

Jasper, I can honestly say with my hand on my heart that between the four grandparents over the past 7 years between they have bought 2 polo shirts (Oxfam), hideous knitted jumpers (jumble), a Paddington jogging suit (when DS was 18 months -he is 7 next month)and a my mother once bought a two piece set from Asda for DD(I nearly fell over with shock). That is it, honestly except for Xmas and birthdays we have never been given clothes of any kind. Bearing in mind my mother lives 2 miles from a large Next, M & S and Mothercare!

I'd frame the Tesco outfit if it was from my MIL!

Made a decision on the tesco outfit. I am just back from one of my late night trips ( look at the time!) . Decided as a compromise to keep the coat but change the trousers. I waddled into the store, straight up to customer services ( which is just inside the door) . Of course being the middle of the night it was completely deserted so the asssistant could see me walk in, ie I was not a shoplifter! ( Always feel funny about returning things without a receipt). I was all smiles and explained very politely that my MIL had bought these trousers earlier that day, I did not really like them, so could I exchange them or would I need to ask her for the receipt? The assistant who was a woman in her 50s just STARED at me in the frostiest manner you could imagine! She leaned over and took them off me without a word, examined them,glared at me and said " what do you want to exchange them for?"to which I replied " well I don't know yet, I have just walked in the door" managing not to add " which you bl**dy well know you frosty old cow, you have been eyeing me suspiciously since I came in ". She took them over her side of the counter and kind of waved me away which I took to mean go and choose another pair, which I did, and when I returned she treated me with the same distain and barely said a word!
I walked away thinking to myself " am I hormonally oversensitive or did I just encounter the nastiest old bag in Scotland who was blatantly rude to a heavily pregnant insomniac?"
How come some people just can't be civil?
Anyway, I got a nice wee pair of trousers for my boy in which he will not look quite so neddy

Jasper I know what you mean about wanting to tell the woman off..... I am SO tempted sometimes... maybe this shift wasn't her first choice?!?!

Well done for reaching a sensible compromise!!

How rudely you were treated in Tesco - bad service is my 'pet subject' (I was in customer services for years!!) - it is actually harder to be rude & horrible to someone than to treat people courteously.

I too have experienced bad service at the so-called'customer service' desk at Tesco - but the check-out staff are always much nicer.

I don't envy you having to shop so late at night, do you often have to do this?

Lindy I don't really have to shop late but sometimes I just get the notion in the middle of the night when I am restless and can't sleep. Our local Tesco ( about 25 minutes drive) recently opened 24 hours a day. I am often the only shopper there and quite enjoy the peace.
Actually I have had bad customer service there before, but have always foung the checkout staff really nice.
I agree it must be even more difficult to be nasty then to at least be polite. What are these people on?

As we are talking Tescos, I had to queue at the checkouts for an hour today! Somebody enlighten me - isn't Saturday the busiest shopping day? Why were half the checkouts closed! Plus I went with Mum and DS who loves being pushed around in the car-trolley things which saved my sanity until the last 20 mins of queueing, but when I tried to prise him from the car a tantrum of epic proportions ensued! I have told my Mum to wallop me round the head with a turnip if I ever suggest going to Tescos on a Saturday again!

Had our NCT nearly new sale today, it was so busy and only the 3rd one we've ever done. Took £1500 which we were so pleased with. Made about £400 for the branch in 4 hours, not a bad return. Yippee! R

Just been clothes shopping, spent £40 in H&M and came back with the following;

a hideous pink velour cardigan thing for dd(MIL's choice)
2 cotton summer skirts
1 skort (skirt/shorts in one)
1 t-shirt for dd
and 4 t-shirts for ds.

Only the hideous cardigan was reduced, everything else was full price!

As they seem to have quite a quick stock change, I'll be going back next pay day.

Won't be too long before the kids are kitted out for our holiday in July.

Also got shorts and t-shirt from M&S, while I'm on about M&S, they have some strappy vests in the kids underwear section, packs of 3 for £7, they're too pretty to hide under clothes, so we're going to use them as t-shirts on holiday.

Anyway, that's me done until next months shopping trip.

Jasper, I always find that a comment such as 'there was a problem with the zip/stitching' etc etc gets everyone out of those tricky 'can't stand it' situations. M or MIL may suspect you don't like it, but you have at least given them an excuse.

Good idea Berries, particularly as these particular trousers were covered in zips/fancy stitching which is why I didn't like them!

There is a great wee shop in Belfast which sells re-cycled designer childrens wear, so you get all the labels you want at a fraction of the price. They are all in great condition and the better quality stuff tends to last really well through several kids!
Weecycle is really worth a visit if like me, you like the quality of designer but not the price! Plus you get to actually inspect the item before you buy, unlike buying from e-bay etc.

charity shops, hand me downs, asda and tesco

WOW THIS THREAD IS FROM 2002!!!

I feel OLD