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Terrible grammar and spelling in nursery newsletter

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ThirteenMeetings · 20/07/2014 20:10

Ok, so not the biggest deal in the world, but we've just received our first bi-monthly newsletter from DD's new nursery (expensive, established, good reputation) and the spelling and grammar are awful!

I realise that other things are more important when it comes to childcare, but I do feel that if these people are going to be contributing to the education of my child, I would like to think they at least know the difference between 'our' and 'are'.

I'm not planning on complaining in a rude way, but possibly offering to do some proof-reading for them... What do you think?

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SpaceDinosaur · 25/08/2019 14:43

@Fandabydosey of course not. I believe my position on that's clear from my final paragraph above. I wouldn't withdraw my child. It's simply a personal gripe. If I thought for a second that SpAG demonstrated a nursery worker's ability to do their job well I would react accordingly.

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Fandabydosey · 24/08/2019 20:43

@SpaceDinosaur SpaceDinosaur

I think my concern with poor grammar is because people tend to write the way that they speak. So "Beth done painting today" will be because, the majority of the time, the carer will speak like this.

Does this make them bad at their job?

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SpaceDinosaur · 24/08/2019 16:04

I think my concern with poor grammar is because people tend to write the way that they speak. So "Beth done painting today" will be because, the majority of the time, the carer will speak like this.

My DD is a sponge. All preschoolers are. She picks up on differences in speech and tries to incorporate them at home. I am currently picking her up on dropped "t"s and forgotten "Please" because that's the example that a lot of the adults around her are setting.

Just procrastinating really. I'm not going to withdraw my child because the care, play, interactions and environment are fantastic. However. It's a gripe. And I know than once she starts school it is only going to get worse!

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Fandabydosey · 22/08/2019 23:22

ThirteenMeetings

I agree I don't think it would worry me on things like daily notes. I suppose my concern is that this nursery goes right up to
pre-school teaching and it does make me question whether what they teach will be correct. DD is not yet 1, so not an issue at the moment.

Also, I work in communications and bad spelling and grammar just get on my nerves!

Yes PRE-SCHOOL
@ThirteenMeetings
This is the lovely time before school starts where children learn independence skills, socialising, and the foundations for the start of a formal education. Children are not taught and should not be taught how to spell at this age! I know the kindest and most amazing practitioner. She is absolutely brilliant with children. Someone who I aspire to be like there is not enough time in the world to explain this lady's talent. This practitioner has a disability, she is dyslexic she finds it hard to put pen to paper. This could be the case here. Please, just because someone finds writing hard or makes the odd mistake doesn't mean people should judge them or that they can't do their job. BTW she is a manager.

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hollie84 · 12/08/2014 16:03

I think it indicates a generally careless, unprofessional attitude to be honest, like it doesn't matter because it's just minding kiddies.

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LadyLuck81 · 12/08/2014 15:59

Our nursery are terrible for this but I've come to the conclusion that, as my daughter is under school age, having fun, learning by play and being happy, and especially as she can't read yet, it's something I should live with.

She's well cared for so I'm not going to upset the nursery by moaning about it.

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merlehaggard · 12/08/2014 15:47

I don't like spelling/grammar mistakes but regularly see them on my son's reports from his nursery. To be honest, in those circumstances it doesn't bother me. Typos on road signs etc are pretty unforgivable. Of the children I have known who have gone into childcare, on the whole, they haven't been the most academic or had the best GCSE's, so it isn't surprising. The staff are however, lovely, patient and kind and my son loves them all. Some of them are very arty (an area that all my family are poor at) and no doubt excel in other areas that we don't. The only thing I think is rather strange, is that presumably a letter like this would come from the nursery manager and you would expect them to have better qualifications and if this was a weak area of their's, then you might expect them to spell check/get a proof reader. Still wouldn't bother me though and would never say anything.

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ThirteenMeetings · 01/08/2014 09:09

PS - I haven't said anything - I'm going to think about it a bit longer!

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ThirteenMeetings · 01/08/2014 09:09

I agree I don't think it would worry me on things like daily notes. I suppose my concern is that this nursery goes right up to pre-school teaching and it does make me question whether what they teach will be correct. DD is not yet 1, so not an issue at the moment.

Also, I work in communications and bad spelling and grammar just get on my nerves!

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NotCitrus · 29/07/2014 21:37

Ds's nursery was like this. The deputy manager who didmost of the newsletters was great with kids, remembered everything about them all, could update you verbally, but honestly couldn't have squeezed more grammar mistakes in the newsletters if she tried. The manager could write pretty well but tended to press print before rushing to cuddle an upset child or other priority. Her business, had waiting list.
I did suggest amending signs and things a child might see, which they always did (lots of older siblings coming in, who could read), but wasn't fussed about theletters.
With school I'd just like more communication with more notice.

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FinallyGotAnIPhone · 29/07/2014 21:13

This was the case in DD's nursery.

I reasoned that their core strength is looking after children not writing good English.

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Enb76 · 29/07/2014 10:37

Actually, I don't think I am particularly worried about the education level of nursery staff. As long as they are caring, loving and engaging for the children they have under their care, does it really matter if they can't spell or use grammar appropriately? I don't think they need masses of qualifications. It wouldn't concern me in the slightest that the notes etc... about my child by the key worker were badly written.

Letters that come out of the office however, should be spelt correctly and have reasonable grammar because it is professional for a business to do so. The person who runs the business should have an interest that it comes across professionally.

Primary school however - that's when the grammar and spelling should be spot on. It enrages me when I hear one of the teachers say "Didn't they do fantastic!?" AAARGH you are teaching my child, speak properly!

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Heyho111 · 29/07/2014 10:25

My daughter works in a nursery. She is a natural at it. She is also doing a degree in early years. However she is dyslexic. I agree the news letter should have been proof read. But my dd difficulty is writing comments on pictures that a child has made. Or writing in their home book. She asked for help but her job is full on and that takes time. Also she has no idea what she can or can't spell.
She decided to be open about her difficulty. This means a home book or picture goes home with spelling mistakes.
The result is the parent gets lots of incidental info about their child and my daughter is less stressed. She gets very upset that she is looked down on for spelling incorrectly. May be we put a little too much importance on it.

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Longdistance · 24/07/2014 12:27

I completely agree with you on this. We've been getting letters from dd1's school for her. They have been unreadable, as in they make no sense whatsoever.

We couldn't work out which part of the school she was going to. North or South, which is weird as they are East and West of each other Confused we read the letter backwards, and it actually made more sense.

We have just received the dates when dd starts. Another confusing letter that makes absolutely no sense again. Probably written by the same fool.

This school has an outstanding award from OFSTED and was in The Times newspaper on a list of the best schools in the country.

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fackinell · 24/07/2014 12:09

This used to drive me insane as a nursery supervisor, it really made the standards of our own education appear questionable. A lot of nurseries will use untrained staff, sometimes with no high school qualifications either, because they pay crap wages. Our 'principle' (as she called herself) was a lovely, warm Grandma type figure but I had to keep my mouth shut a lot about her and the other staff
member's spelling.

At the end of the day, it is primarily a care setting over an educational one, I'd be concerned if teaching staff were making mistakes such as these. Wink

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TheFowlAndThePussycat · 24/07/2014 12:05

Would you expect a school or a doctor's surgery to send out a letter with poor spelling & grammar?

I expect any organisation to be able to communicate externally in acceptable English, it is a marker of professionalism & respect for the audience. Not talking about the individual nursery workers here, rather the management team. I don't understand why we wouldn't hold nurseries to this standard?

Unless you are saying that there is no point having standard spelling and grammar?

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TouchOfNatural · 24/07/2014 11:57

Anyone sending out newsletters needs to have a good command of English and grammar - a prerequisite in my view as a nursery principal.

The odd observation with 'Tommy done a painting'.. Whereas frustrating, is not a train smash. I would not expect this to come from qualified staff though, an assistant possibly. Sadly grammar and spelling are nit high on the agenda in many schools nowadays it seems. And if I did notice this I would point it out that we need to write 'Tommy did a painting'.. And with more info related to the area of learning naturally... Not just a statement but what he enjoyed, what he learnt from it eg: he saw that when he mixed blue and yellow paint he created green paint!

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Lovelydiscusfish · 24/07/2014 00:29

Why is that a marker of cleverness, though? If they could write a letter, which could be understood, that they should nonetheless submit it to your checking for spelling accuracy - is that a marker of cleverness? Not trying to be inflammatory, but I honestly don't get why this is seen as such an important measure, of anything.

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TiggyD · 23/07/2014 20:17

No. I've worked with people who've had trouble spelling for various reasons. They all knew they shouldn't write a letter and just send it out with nobody checking. They we're clever enough to know that.

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Lovelydiscusfish · 23/07/2014 20:06

Accurate literacy isn't always the same as cleverness, though.

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TiggyD · 23/07/2014 15:14

Thick but caring is better than clever but uncaring, but I'd rather have staff who are caring and clever.

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VashtaNerada · 22/07/2014 08:55

Always found this with nurseries. It sets my teeth on edge ("DD done painting") but I just tell myself there are other more important qualities I want staff to have at that stage.

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bigTillyMint · 22/07/2014 07:06

The spellings and grammar on communications from the DC's day-care nursery always made us smile.

11/9 years on and both the children remember their days there with great fondness.

Sometimes spelling and grammar isn't so important. As long as you can understand what they mean, of course!

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