I wonder if it would be possible to answer a few questions for us that our local specialist seems unable to?
Our three year old daughter has been diagnosed for well over a year as anaphylactic to eggs, peanuts, walnuts and sesame.Her latest skin prick test showed level 5 reactions (the same as the control) .She has also reacted to items in the park that people have been eating on and to people touching peanuts and then her.
At the moment we are being extra cautious with absolutely everything that she touches and we are not eating anything that cannot be assured to be safe.
It seems that other people are quite happy to eat 'unsafe' foods but not to let their child have them.Even eating them next to them,as in a bag of nuts and also foods that may contain.
Do you have any suggestions as to what we should be doing? We have read a piece of research that says that if we were to eat, drink and clean our teeth after eating something with an allergen in it then we would be unlikely to contaminate her with that allergen.
We are also concerned by ingredients in things that she might use rather than eat (e.g. paint, playdoh)or in fact in products that we might use (e.g. shampoo or body lotion and especially anything that may linger on the skin) and we tend to shy away from letting her use things until we have confirmed that they are safe or checked the labels. Do you have any suggestions in this regard? How likely would a reaction be if any of the allergens were present in tiny amounts in these types of products?
How likely are children to cross contaminate each other?
This also runs for us when we go out to eat: At the moment we are taking our own food all the time for all of us as we know that it is safe. It was suggested to us that we should wipe the tables with anti-bac wipes where we eat to ensure that there is the lowest possible chance of an allergen being present. Do we need to go this far? If the table was 'cleaned' by the establishment prior to us using it would it be likely that allergens would remain? Do you have any suggestions as to how we should deal with the nursery?
At the moment all our Specialist has told us is that we need to be 'sensible' in our approach. We are finding that simple word quite difficult to put into practice as 'sensible' seems to us to be to make as sure as we can that she does not come into contact with the allergens and therefore avoids another reaction.
Overall our lives are ruled by places were no one is eating or facepainting ,playing with dogs,using animal foods etc and this is affecting the whole household.
Do all of the things she is allergic to sustain the same amount of risk ie if someone were to eat a sandwich containing mayo next to her and then hold her hand is this a real risk,we ask as we have moved her away from children in the park because of situations just like this.
We really would appreciate your help as we need to have some direction as to what we should be doing that would take account of the current medical evidence.
We have recently been told that she will only have an anaphylactic reaction if she ingests the food that she is allergic to and not if she touches it. Is that right? What will destroy the proteins for nuts and eggs? Is soap and water enough? So, if she touches a food that might contain her allergen if she then washes her hands will that prevent her ingesting even traces of it and thereby prevent an anaphylactic reaction?
With thanks and confusion!