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"At the heart of my activism is the need to give voice to millions of silenced women”

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MumsnetGuestPosts · 21/06/2018 17:16

My name is Masih Alinejad. I’m a journalist, human rights activist, and a women's rights warrior. I’m also a troublemaker, all because I started to say the word ‘no’.

Saying ‘no’ is not easy for women, and especially in the place where I grew up. Born in a small village in Northern Iran called Ghomikola, I had a simple childhood with two conservative parents, surrounded by brothers who enjoyed more freedom and greater privilege.

My inquisitiveness about why life as a girl had to be different started at a young age. Like children everywhere, growing up was riddled with small acts of defiance - with one small difference. Without knowing it, I was challenging the notions of what it meant to be a girl in the Islamic Republic. This brought shame to my family time and again - when I was expelled from high school for asking questions about the political system, for instance, and when I complained about the compulsory hijab.

Another source of embarrassment (which probably contributed to my expulsion) came when I was chosen by my high school to become a Quran reciter. As I mention in my book, this opportunity imbued my parents with pride. That day, I sat cross-legged on a futon on the stage, looking out at the students and teachers, and started reading a verse from the Quran. But I was a voracious reader of poetry, and my mind instinctively wanted to venture into reading a forbidden poem. It was written by Shamloo - one of Iran’s censored poets. So, I started reciting: “They smell your mouth, lest you've said I love you; they smell your heart. These are strange times my dear.” To my utter surprise, the students were whistling in delight. But delving into the ‘forbidden’ displeased the teachers, who hurried forwards and dragged me away. I continued to recite the poem even while they pulled me from my platform - a public manifestation of my early rebellion.

I believe that it is only by saying ‘no’ that we forge our identity.

The will to fight against injustice has guided me ever since. For more than four years now, I have campaigned against the compulsory hijab - a venture which started spontaneously on a beautiful May day, when the rain stopped and the sun came out. I lived in Kew Gardens at the time, and decided to run around amongst the cherry blossoms. I posted a picture of this on Facebook, not wearing a headscarf. In the picture, I was running through a street in London - enthralled by the sensation of the wind stroking my hair.

I hadn’t lived in Iran for a long time - forced to leave five years earlier. In 2009, there was a sweeping crackdown by the Islamic Republic authorities, and the country was gripped by large-scale protests against the electoral fraud. I settled down in the UK as a journalist, relaying the voices of families whose sons and daughters had been killed by the security forces with impunity.

After five years of covering political news, I longed for change. And, to my astonishment, this Kew Gardens photo prompted numerous women in Iran to reach out - sending me messages about how envious they were of my freedom, and expressing the sorrow they felt in being unable to share it.

Little did I know that, shortly afterwards, my Facebook feed and inbox would be inundated with photos sent from Iran by Iranian women; women who were stealthily enjoying the wind in their hair. And so a campaign named #MyStealthyFreedom was born. It was so successful that it soon morphed into related initiatives.

In May 2017, we launched #WhiteWednesdays (whereby every Wednesday, women in Iran go into public without a headscarf, or wear a white shawl to protest against compulsory hijab). Soon enough, women started walking the streets of Iran bare-headed, and sent me the videos of their rebellion.

Another groundbreaking moment took place in December, with the rise of the #GirlsOfRevolutionStreet movement. It began with Vida Movahedi, who started waving her white scarf as a flag in a busy street called Revolution Street, standing on a utility box on a hectic Wednesday morning.

Now, #WhiteWednesdays has grown so huge that women are walking unveiled in the streets of Iran on a daily basis. Our latest initiative, #MyCameraIsMyWeapon, has also garnered a huge following in Iran - as evidenced by the popularity of our Instagram videos. The campaign asks women to film the people who harass them in the street for being unveiled, which seems to have frightened the morality police officers.

At the heart of my activism is the need to give voice to the millions of silenced women in Iran - women who are continually ignored by the government. I attribute the success of my campaigns to the fact that they are utterly based on the actions of ordinary people. My role has been to give them a platform from which to relay their voices - so that they, too, can speak their forbidden words.

Masih Alinejad is the author of The Wind in My Hair: My Fight for Freedom in Modern Iran (Virago, £10.49 hardback). She joins us here on the bottom of this guest post for a webchat on Wednesday 27 June at 9pm. Post your questions here in advance if you can’t make it on the day.

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Ereshkigal · 28/06/2018 23:55

Thank you Masih Thanks

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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 22:10

Dear All,

Thank you for your wonderful comments. I really enjoyed chatting with you and learnt a few things too!.

Best to you all.

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ClaireTMumsnet · 27/06/2018 21:57

Hi all,

Sadly we're almost at the end of our hour with Masih. Thanks so much to all who joined us, and a huge thank you to Masih for joining us this evening.

We've had a really interesting discussion tonight, and I hope Masih enjoyed taking part as much as we enjoyed reading the chat!

MNHQ

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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 21:51

@mistressiggi

OP, what do you think will happen next in Iran? will more freedoms be granted, or are we not near that yet?


Women will keep pushing for more rights and over time, there'll be compulsory hijab and no one will notice ...
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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 21:47

@YummySushi

So to clarify, those of you supporting this activist lady, are in essence speaking against the freedom of women to wear the hijab ??

In which case, no u don’t inspire me dear author. You have actually encouraged a wave that offends me. Riding on the wave of islamophobia to get recognition for your personal suffering, isn’t actaully noble.


Dear YummySushi,

I encourage you to read my book before firing away with both barrels. As I write in The Wind in My Hair, I came from a conservative and religious family where my parents had tough times making ends meet. I was chosen to be a Quran reciter at high school, though I preferred poetry. My mother and sister wear the hijab but it should not be compulsory. Compulsion is not part of Iranian culture or Islamic faith.
I am not against Islam but it is the Islamic Republic that is against me, or I should say it's against women. Compulsory hijab is a way of censoring women -- hiding them from the public sphere.
My campaign does not encourage Islamophobia but we Muslims should not shy away from discussing the not so savory parts.
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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 21:31

So true....

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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 21:27

@UpstartCrow

Hello MasihAlinejad Flowers

I'd like to ask, is there anything women here can do to support you?


I'd like women everywhere to support freedom to choose for ourselves. I want to make sure politicians are aware of our brave struggle against oppression so that when they talk to Iranian government they also discuss this issue.
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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 21:20

@LegoPiecesEverywhere

Wow. I admire your courage and strength.


Thank you. The real courage is from the women inside Iran. Best
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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 21:19

@PoodleQueen

Hi there and thank you for taking the time to chat with us this evening. I wondered how you felt about encouraging rebellion from the relative safety of the west? Please know I'm not discounting or dismissing in any way the abuse you may have experienced here in the uUK


Hi PQ,
As I wrote in my book in greater detail, in 2009 I was a political journalist working in Iran and the security forces gave me a choice: leave Iran or face arrest. For five years, I covered human rights violations, including producing a 57 part radio documentary on those killed in Iran 2009 protests. I received death threats even then. What was my supposed crime? I was just documenting human rights abuses.
Now, as I have said many times, if the Islamic Republic guarantees my safety, I will return and continue my campaign in Iran.
I am outside Iran but my campaign and all the activists are inside Iran. I am only a platform to raise the voices of Iranian women. My campaign dies without the support of Iranian women inside the country
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LegoPiecesEverywhere · 27/06/2018 21:12

Wow. I admire your courage and strength.

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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 21:07

Thank you all for your comments and views. It's so heartwarming that such a discussion is taking place where we can explore how we feel about Islam, Islamophobia, hijab, compulsory hijab.
As I wrote in my book, I protested against the Burkini ban in France. If women in France want to wear Burkinis, that's their right. It's their choice. But I'm disappointed by my Muslim sisters and European feminists and lefties who are silent on the issue of compulsory hijab. We should protest both the Burkini ban and compulsory hijab.

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UpstartCrow · 27/06/2018 21:04

Hello MasihAlinejad Flowers

I'd like to ask, is there anything women here can do to support you?

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PoodleQueen · 27/06/2018 21:03

Hi there and thank you for taking the time to chat with us this evening. I wondered how you felt about encouraging rebellion from the relative safety of the west? Please know I'm not discounting or dismissing in any way the abuse you may have experienced here in the uUK

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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 21:01

@MumChou

Hi Masih! I totally agree that the ‘Islamic Republic’ obliging all women (even tourists of other faiths) to wear a head-covering is wrong and I would say that it is actually un-Islamic . As a hijab-wearing Muslim (Ahmadi) it seems clear to me that Islam requires the separation of religion and state. We read in the Quran that, ‘there should be no compulsion in matters of faith.’ What amazes me is how this is such a blindspot for leaders. How do they justify it?


Hi MumChou -- my mother and sister both wear the hijab and I defend their right to do so. I want to have the freedom to choose for myself. It's about choice. Coercion is not part of my culture and should not be part of Islam, or any faith either. Faith is about acceptance not being forced to accept.
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ClaireTMumsnet · 27/06/2018 20:57

Welcome Masih Alinejad! We're delighted that you're able to join us this evening. We've already received lots of questions so I'll hand over to you.

We at MNHQ are really looking forward to what's sure to be a fascinating conversation - and thank you so much for joining us.

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MumChou · 27/06/2018 20:57

Hi Masih! I totally agree that the ‘Islamic Republic’ obliging all women (even tourists of other faiths) to wear a head-covering is wrong and I would say that it is actually un-Islamic . As a hijab-wearing Muslim (Ahmadi) it seems clear to me that Islam requires the separation of religion and state. We read in the Quran that, ‘there should be no compulsion in matters of faith.’ What amazes me is how this is such a blindspot for leaders. How do they justify it?

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MasihAlinejad · 27/06/2018 20:55

Hello everyone,

Thanks for all the questions so far and I am looking forward to answering them.

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YummySushi · 27/06/2018 13:39

Upstart crow , prawn, mistress.. my comments stem from the understanding of some of the pp who obviously see this as a chance to pounce at a woman’s religious choice to wear the hijab and making it all about her being oppressive and submissive to men.

The OP hadn’t done anything wrong IMO, and I disagree with compulsory hijab, but the comments of ppl like pp and the situation for many hijabis which I’m sure , if YOU don’t understand, but the OP understands.. deems it in my opinion a responsibility to not provide more room for islamophobes to “control” hijabi women under the excuse of “liberating” them.. especially those feminists with the superiority complex that feel their intervention is always needed and that they provide the ONLY framework that works for women to be happy.

Therefore... before you are surprised at my “hostility”, perhaps there is a problem why the remaining comments don’t stick out to u too... or shall we say, because it’s an issue that affects people like me and not you , and hence my voice comes from a different angle to yours ? Hence why being shocked is a bit ignorant in my opinion.

I speak on behalf of my mother, relatives, friends... who in fact have been abused by islamophobes all their lives .... in the UK and in the countries of parental origin... under the disguise of “liberating”.


Anyway I have Said my piece. I’m not against what the OP wrote.. I’m really only against the perception of many people reading this article , and then translating it into support for their condescending views of women wearing the hijab as being silent to oppression and need liberating. I sense from the tone of te article that the hijab is being protrayed as a symbol of oppression...


I don’t expect anyone to agree with me really... but as many posters on mumsnet day, posting on a forum is about hearing all views... and my view is : I respect the ops views so long as those who want to wear the hijab are respected as women who fully made an informed choice out of their own will to wear it.

Thank u !

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mistressiggi · 27/06/2018 12:48

OP, what do you think will happen next in Iran? will more freedoms be granted, or are we not near that yet?

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Mistressiggi · 27/06/2018 12:42

I sense that a lot of those women who fight against compulsory hijab are ruining things for the rest of hijabis
That is as logical as saying that people fighting against forced marrige are ruining things for people who choose to get married.

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Prawnofthepatriarchy · 27/06/2018 11:21

Riding on the wave of islamophobia to get recognition for your personal suffering, isn’t actaully noble.

I don't think that's what Masih Alinejad is trying to do, YummySushi. She's talking about the compulsory hijab and wanting to free her countrywomen. If you want to wear one that should be your choice. I don't understand the level of hostility you're displaying towards her initiative.

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UpstartCrow · 27/06/2018 11:11

YummySushi
So to clarify, those of you supporting this activist lady, are in essence speaking against the freedom of women to wear the hijab ??

No, that's your agenda talking. Everyone can read the thread and comments for themselves.

Coercion is not freedom.

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Ereshkigal · 26/06/2018 20:44

OP Thanks

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Ereshkigal · 26/06/2018 20:44

Well that's not true, is it. Its also compulsory in Saudi Arabia, and parts of Indonesia.
Elsewhere, women have to do what their parents, husband and society say. There are more ways to compel compliance than by making laws.

This.

Perhaps take your points off to a thread where people are calling for mandatory anti hijab laws, Sushi?

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YummySushi · 26/06/2018 20:24

So to clarify, those of you supporting this activist lady, are in essence speaking against the freedom of women to wear the hijab ??

In which case, no u don’t inspire me dear author. You have actually encouraged a wave that offends me. Riding on the wave of islamophobia to get recognition for your personal suffering, isn’t actaully noble.

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