In summary, I have a 6 year old, I broke up with his dad and his dad married and also has a 4 year old girl. Ex and his wife are no longer able to look after their daughter and she is currently being looked after by paternal grandmother. It is unlikely this arrangement will contunue and we are exploring other options for the girl.
I am considering offering to take her in. Her and my DS get on well, I have the space for her and I am financially stable. I am from an EU country, ex and his wife were from africa. DS and I speak my native language at home rarely english and its important to me that we keep this going. His half sister has no knowledge of the language and I am not sure how easy it would be for her to pick up. I try to educate DS about our culture and our history and makes sure he knows his roots.
If I took in DS's half sister I would not be able to speak to her in the language she has used at home and my knowledge about the history and culture of her parent's country is limited. Grandparents from both sides are not very involved in her life and I imagine the contact may be more difficult now her parents are out of the picture. I am not sure I could rely on their cultural influence.
Does anyone have any experience of integrating a child with a different cultural background in to the family? How do I go about keeping her in touch with her roots? How do I respect her heritage and make her feel comfortable among us when we do things so differently?
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BigSmallHeather · 04/04/2023 21:55
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