Am I definitely miscarrying?

[noitsachicken]

Hi,

I am about 6 weeks, over the weekend had brown mucous discharge, this gradually increased and on Monday was spotting blood.
I had a scan at EPU who saw a heartbeat and said all was well.
However today bleeding has got heavier, like the start of a period, with some small clots.
Feeling pretty despondent, assuming its over. I am going in for a scan tomorrow morning to see what has happened.
Any advice?

Thanks

[noitsachicken]

Thankyou everyone for your lovely comments and support.

Honestly the trolls have not affected me, I wouldn't give them the satisfaction!

I'll pop back across to the TTC boards soon. Obviously I am gutted by this m/c but going to try to chalk it up to experience and get on with it.
I know many more women than me have been and will go through this many more times. I am lucky enough to have a healthy DS, I know many others don't.

[curiousgeorgie]

I'm so sorry, my page didn't load all the comments!

I'm so so sorry for your loss, try to rest as much as you can xxxx

[LouiseSmith]

So sorry for your loss. :( xx

[itsnotthateasy]

Very true Scholes34 ,, So sorry to hear of your loss OP.

Re the Trolls and their comments . . best way to deal with those types is to completely ignore them , do not feed . .. . Report away but don't mention it , ,they hate being ignored..

[ChippingInWadesIn]

I am so sorry chick :( so very sorry x

I am also sorry you had to read what those idiots posted, but I'm glad you can see that they were just trolling fuckwits.

(Prettykitty111 do posters the decency of reading a thread before posting when it is a serious thread. The OP updated more than 24 hours before you posted)

[Scholes34]

What helped me through, was being told by the doctors that a miscarriage frequently happens for good reason - ie, it's your body's way of dealing with something that's not as it should be. It stopped me dwelling on what might have been, and on the original due date I didn't make, I was actually visiting the delivery suite a few months before DD (ie the subsequent pregnancy) was due.

[Cruze]

I am so so sorry for your loss.
Well done for ignoring the vile cretins you are a stronger person than I would have been at the time. I found having a toddler at the time of my last MC really helped. I took a couple of weeks off work and threw myself into giving her the best 2 weeks I could. Did lots of things, made sure I was out of the house & her smiles really got me through the worst part. I promise you it does get easier. Look after yourself x

[MummaMeerkat]

Noitsachicken i'm so sorry for your loss

[Shellywelly1973]

Sending you hugs & best wishes op. x x x

[Topaz25]

I am so sorry for your loss, thinking of you at this difficult time. When I had a miscarriage I found www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/ really helpful.

[Bubblegoose]

OP. Sending you hugs.

Looks like the good people outweigh the fuckwits on this thread. Isn't MN wonderful?

[Northumberlandlass]

So sorry Chicken

[loveandsmiles]

Reported too.

Thinking of you xxx

[sebsmummy1]

Massive hugs chicken xx

[NakedTigarCub]

Sorry op ((((((hugs)))))))))

[Pregnantberry]

Pretty sure those posters are sad 40 year old men with nothing better to do than troll Mumsnet.

I am so sorry to hear your news Chicken, I have been following you on our antenatal board with my fingers crossed.

[Bowlersarm]

Reported as well.

OP, sorry you are going through this.

[eurochick]

I'm sorry for what you are going through, and also sorry that some of the hard of thinking brigade have posted on this thread.

I mc'd a 6 week foetus (but at 8 weeks - it was a mmc) and bled for 2 weeks in total. Only a couple of really bad days on which clots were pouring out of me and then about a week and a half of something similar to a period. So you might well have more to come. I just wanted you to be prepared. If there is a clot blocking the cervix that will slow things down temporarily.

[sewingandcakes]

Sorry for your loss OP

Idiots like that are a tiny minority thankfully.

[MarshaBrady]

Glad they've been deleted. Hope you are ok chickens.

[stickysausages]

So sorry for your loss :(

Look after yourself, and please get checked over if you feel unwell or have any symptoms you're unsure of etc.

[Jacamaar]

So sorry to hear what your going through op.
Reported

[DownstairsMixUp]

Sorry your going through this op. It DOES get easier to deal with I promise. Be kind to yourself. X

[pigletmania]

Big hugs op look after yoursef sweetxxx