I was hand served papers from my ex partners solicitor last night. It states that there is an urgent directions hearing next week.
There are no concerns about my care of the children, no Social Services involvement (except in the past when I have referred incidents of DV and harassment from him and the recent discovery of him assaulting one child as a baby that he allowed a nursery worker to be blamed for).
There is nothing on the form or his application to say he is concerned the children are at risk or at risk of abduction etc.
Contact has been paused since new year due to medical neglect resulting in my son being quite unwell 6 out of 7 last contact times from a chronic illness he has.
I have repeatedly offered a zoom conversation recorded for both our reference to discuss how to manage son's medical needs. I had also already been in contact with a mediator who invited him to take part. All ignored by him.
I only received his solicitors letter on Wednesday and haven't had chance to respond as son has been in hospital.
What happens at an urgent directions heating? Do I attend? I can't afford a solicitor and I'm not entitled to legal aid. (ex claims to have zero income and is over £4500 in debt with CMS).
Son is due to be back to hospital for a small procedure next week and I don't find out the date until tomorrow. What if it is the same time as son's procedure? Can I challenge the urgent directions hearing myself on the grounds there is no urgency under the criteria on the application?
Any advice gratefully received.
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bus74 · 03/03/2024 13:29
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