Hi all,
I wrote a similar post on a different topic a few weeks ago but just wondered if I could get more experience from here. I separated from my husband last year after finding out he had been having an affair, we have two DC, 10 & 7. Things are slowly moving but house is still up for sale. The worry I have is the complete different lifestyles our children will have with me and him. sTBXH is a high earner, I’m on an OK salary but pretty average. We got rid of the car I drove as it was owned by STBXH and now I’ve got a much cheaper, basic car, whilst he is driving around in a £70k car. Looking at houses and I’m looking at a small 3 bed terraced or similar and he is looking at big 4 bed detached. I’m just really worried that our children will want to spend more time with him as he has the fancier things. They might be embarrassed being dropped off in my car or bringing friends back to my house. Has anyone been in a similar situation and what did the kids think? I know they love me, but I know kids can sometimes think bigger is better. He’s just started doing things with them and the OW so I’m feeling quite low at the minute about it all.
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user1469990255 · 29/01/2024 12:16
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