Ex strikes again. He’s been ordered to finally pay statutory maintenance and all hell has broken loose.
He’s drastically reducing overnight, doesn’t realise maintenance will go up as a result, I believe additional night over the lower level of each tier based on their (slightly inaccurate) calculations is considered
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He’s just refusing to collect when I have work commitments - so damaging my career - this is not the first time, but what the hell do I say to the D.C. daddy doesn’t want to fetch you because it’s too much of an effort?
Holiday negotiation hell at least will be avoided as he’s not even having them for half the agreed schedule. I won’t be able to work and will lose my home if that’s the cases it’s a shitshow.
There was so much abuse involved but they like going as they were too small to witness it first hand but pick up in the fact we are not exactly friends.
I am just exhausted by his constant attempts to wear me down and after years of being separated and he being remarried he’s seems to be getting worse.
How to I navigate yet more disruption as I’m just so tired and worn down by it.
I am rambling so this probably sounds unhinged.
I want to leave the county so he can’t mess with my life.
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Heisaknob · 23/01/2024 23:19
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