Hello, I'm looking for some advice.
I would love to take my son abroad this year, preferably to the USA. Looking it up, I keep reading that you are supposed to have writtem permission from the other parent, if they have parental responsibility. My son's father walked out on us when he was 6 weeks old, have never seen or heard from since- my son is now 10 years old. Technically, he still has parental responsibility though! There is no way for me to contact him, he does not even live in the same country anymore. I tried a couple of times when he was a toddler and he never replied to any of my correspondence.
I have actually been abroad(Europe) with him several times since he was a baby and never had any problems before, never even gave it a second thought but somehow the thought of taking him to the USA and being questioned or sent back is filling me with anxiety!
I have read something about requiring a court order? Has anybody any advice on how to go about obtaining this? Does it cost much? And will I need one everytime I want to go abroad or is it just a one time thing? Will i need his contact details? I hate that he's still got control over our lives all these years later :-(
Thanks!
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Starabella · 29/12/2023 20:24
myphoneisbroken · 29/12/2023 20:56
I have taken my DC abroad loads of times, we have different surnames. I have never been asked for a letter from their father.
startatthegin · 14/01/2024 09:55
Speak to a solicitor. They will explain the "no order principle" and make you feel better and confident to travel. Enjoy your trip.
Vanillabourbon · 15/01/2024 13:44
I have just briefly read about this but how would this help you if you got stopped and asked for a letter of proof etc?
startatthegin · 14/01/2024 09:55
Speak to a solicitor. They will explain the "no order principle" and make you feel better and confident to travel. Enjoy your trip.
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Starabella · 17/01/2024 12:06
OK, so I'm looking now to gain a residents order from the court which will allow me to take him abroad legally.
I know I could just risk it and probably won't get stopped or questioned but it's stressful enough travelling as a single parent, I just want one less thing to have to worry about!
Hoping the process is quick and pain free!
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