My son has just turned 16. I spilt form his dad when he was 18 months old when his dad had an affair.
I also have a 20 year old daughter with him but she has refused to see her dad for almost 10 years now.
My ex has been very unreasonable over the years. He is a narcissist and has constantly blames me for things and accuses me of bullying him.
He took me to court 5 years ago to get a court order even though I never stopped him seeing my son.
My ex has continually put pressure on my son to live there. He has thought about moving there several times but this time he has decided he is going to move there she go to college there
I know my son is old enough to make this choice but I feel absolutely devastated.
My ex is not a good role model, his wife left him a few months ago after years of him cheating on her and emotionally abusing her. He now has lodgers living with him, he works shifts and spends a lot of time doing things for himself.
I just feel gutted that after doing everything for my kids, he has chosen to move there. I worry his studies will suffer.
He is leaving in 2 days and am not sure how I'm going to cope on the day he leaves
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Samk79 · 29/08/2023 07:59
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29/08/2023 12:09
Mayhemmumma · 29/08/2023 09:54
Help him pack, drop him off and wish him well but also tell him you love him, your door is always open and you hope you'll still see lots of him.
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